'Equality' isn't what most make it out to be... It isn't a physical equality, but a rights equality. Everyone has equal rights, not equal bodies or minds.
Feminism as it is portrayed now by the vocal minority, is actually saying that women are better than men in all things, not just some. It refuses to acknowledge that men are better at some things than women, or that some men and some women are better/worse than average. Overall it's just another form of unpleasant insanity (a break from reality) that is left undiagnosed and untreated. Everyone is different physically and mentally, saying anything else requires you to ignore reality. I'd like to see what would happen if a Masculinism movement happened that had the exact same views except for men... Probably excessive ridicule, and claims that they're all male chauvinist pigs.
I guarantee I can do things that most can't, and I can probly do more total things well than 99% of the world's population... That doesn't mean I can do them better, or I'm an expert, just able to do them well. Example: I can do electrical work, welding, car repair, pilot an airplane/helicopter, drive anything, do almost anything with computers, build networking cables, make furniture, cook, clean, be a first responder, make a suture, fire a gun, pilot a ship or boat, sew, make paper, make fabric, make tools, make clothing, build houses, etc... But not all of these can I do at expert levels. As a matter of fact, about the only ones I can do at or close to expert level is computer networking, piloting, driving, computer hardware, and household electrical work. Most of the rest I can do mediocre to good quality work.
Fairness doesn't work, as when everything's fair, people don't compete. Example: A bunch of kids go to a pine car derby, all of them get some form of trophy even if all they did was attach wheels to the block of wood and use that. Competing should be encouraged, though not to an extreme. A few should get trophies, (top 3 or top 5 depending on how many are competing) the rest should get almost nothing. Real life punishes those that don't actively compete.
Next time you see your feminist friend, tell her I called her a female chauvinist... Then after she blows up, tell her the definition of the word chauvinist: "showing or relating to excessive or prejudiced loyalty or support for a particular group or cause."